Friday, July 18, 2008

Neeeew Yoooork Ciiiity & RickyG

I awoke early saturday morning after a blurry karaoke&goodbye filled night, and a mere 2 hours sleep, ready to furiously pack my bag and set off in a car with my sister and my brother's girlfriend for my very first ever trip to NYC. (Yes, that's right my lovelies, I am 27, live in montreal, work in a creative profession, and have never been to NYC. It's a mystery to me too.)Also, this was not simply a departure to NY, but a departure from Montreal; over the next three weeks i'll be in Montreal for a grand total of another 2.5 days before I leave for Australia where I will stay for up to 12 months.. The reality of my departure is setting in fast!

The 7 hour road trip teaches me 3 things. First, my laptop battery is nearing the end of its life, and making a driving playlist/CD is a task best finished *before* climbing into the backseat of the car. Second, indulging in truck-stop junk food is wildly tempting and promises to satisfy a bizarre culinary guilty-pleasure related somehow to a childhood of eating *good* food, but is never as enjoyable as my imagination promise. Third, most of the 'cheese' used at Taco Bell is of the kraft slices variety. ick.

We cross the bridge into NYC at 5pm. The city looms as we approach, and the drive thru is an odd experience of finally seeing in person the urban landscape so familiar to me already through pop culture. Wide, car-filled streets with tall buildings and packed sidewalks. Lovely building facades with fire escapes unceremoniously tacked on top. Occasional square of greenspace overflowing with active New Yorkers of all ages enjoying the sun, heat, and company. A few minutes later in central Manhattan we are greeted by a friendly woman named Ximena whose apartment we are renting for three days. As she 'gives us the tour', she serves us homemade lemonade and then takes us up to a rooftop party with an incredible view of the city skyline. That evening we dine at Schiller's where I gorge on a delicious cuban sandwich and marvel at the lettering (numbering?) on the bottles that line the wall. We then drive over to brooklyn and spend the night getting strikes & gutterballs at "The Gutter", a great bowling alley with good beer, 70s furniture and a cozy bar. We cap off the night back in Manhattan with some typical new york pizza, and discuss how post-drinking eateries seem to be a great equalizer, bringing all kinds of people together at the end of the night, united by their love of greasy hangover-preventing snacks, sitting elbow to elbow devouring different-but-similar slices of pizza.

Sunday we get up less-than-bright-and-early for an eagerly awaited brunch/lunch at Cafe Habana on Prince Street. The food is great, the highlight being the Grilled Cornonthecob covered with Queso Blanco, chili powder and lime. We think we see Perez Hilton, but are disappointed a quick blackberry-internet-picture-check later. After a wander through the designer markets and a subway trip, we find ourselves basking in the sun with about 1000 other sunbathers in central park, in 'sheep field'. We then groggily stroll over to the MOMA where we finish the days activities off with a rushed-1h-before-closing survey of art and design from 1870-1940. Seeing Les Desmoiselles D'Avignon in person is pretty overwhelming! I take in 1940-present in about 5 minutes as the guards corral us towards down-only-escalators 5 minutes before closing. Tired, we head back to the apartment, making a quick stop at Wholefoods for some hor d'oeuvres and a bottle of Rose which we happily devour back on the rooftop, watching a pale pink sun set over the NYC skyline. Dinner is Indian, drinks are at a half empty club, and the night finishes happily with cider and lemondrop shots on yet another improvised rooftop terrace (read: kitchen chairs on tarpaper) this time in Brooklyn. We get to bed around 4, simultaneously excited for and dreading another full day in NY.

Not surprisingly, monday sees us rising late, and we don't make it out till at least 11. We basically spend the afternoon doing lots of rushed shopping, including gawking at haute couture and anticipating celebrity spottings in SOHO. (no dice.) Another rushed museum visit, the Guggenheim this time, is discussed, but rejected thanks to everyone's mutual need to retreat to the apartment for a nap! A few hours later, we are off to see Ricky Gervais do a standup act at Madison Square Gardens. The spectacle is exciting, the act is hilarious, only slightly marred for me by the fact that i've seen about 70% of the show already on DVD a week earlier. But this allows me to discover first-hand how excellent an actor Gervais is, with his rehearsed-but-convincingly-spontaneous style. We take in Times Square, a spectacle best seen at night to be sure. I wind my way through crowds perched on the curb watching baseball on a screen overhead, passionate couples arguing loudly, long lines of caricaturists with thier prey, and other tourists like myself tripping over each other as we look nowhere but up and/or through our cameras. To finish off the night, we head to Jamon for some lovely Rioja and tasty Spanish tapas. The quail en escabeche disappears much too quickly, as does the pickled sardines and the freshly cut serrano ham. Inspired, I vow to actively embark on an education in wine appreciation. About 7 years too late, but better late than never.

And with that vow ends my first trip to New York City. Tuesday morning we're up early for our flight, and after minimal security checks (i did have to take off my shoes) we're on a plane back to Canada. Next stop: Manitoba; Winnipeg, then Neepawa, for tons of family catch-up, lots of tea, BBQed food and soft-serve ice cream, the Neepawa 125th homecoming / lily festival, and a re-grounding in half of my confused cultural background - the prarie.

staying, going, staying, going...

Its has been just over 6 weeks since I have been back in montreal, and I'm just about to leave for parts of canada. After a short North American expedition I'm off, straight back to Australia and Byron Bay, just in time for the Splendour in the Grass music festival, where 18 000 people invade that small town for a weekend of rock madness. Sadly I have no tickets. But I've been assured the perimeter fences are a minor obstacle ...

I'm excited to go back, but I'll admit that my excitement is heavily overshadowed at the moment by the contentment I feel being back in Montreal. The city is alive, humming with the movement of people who are trying to make the most of these warm summer days before winter threatens us with its gaunt, autumn-colored fingers. So many old friendships in need of re-cementing, new friendships to hurriedly make a foundation for before I leave. So, dare I say it, I feel sad to leave Montreal. Sad to the point of fantasizing about staying a bit longer... I know what that would mean, tho. It starts with a Job, followed up by an apartment, then suddenly it feels *impossible* to leave again. At the moment I have the benefit of a very temporary living situation to help me stay focused (I'm unemployed and sleeping on a foam mattress on the floor at my sister's apartment - it has smurf sheets for heavens sake. Ok, maybe that's a perk...)

One of the exciting things about being back in Montreal was rediscovering the city i've known for so long, the city that is a part of me to the point of becoming invisible. It was invisible. When I lived there, the city was a totally ubiquitous part of my daily life. But now it suddenly exists again, and I'm dying to consciously rediscover my favorite parts of Montreal, so I can share them with others and appreciate them more fully. But to be honest, I'm beginning to think it's naive to believe you can ever see with any distance or impartiality anything you are/were once so close to. Maybe you can suspend partiality, as you 'suspend disbelief' when you watch a movie, but it's still a different creature from having fresh, naive eyes.

Since I had some free time on my hands, I decided to volunteer with the Montreal Fringe Festival a little bit, which was alot of fun, and I highly recommend it to anyone. I mostly worked the beer tent, which is a great job; it lets you socialize with guests and other volunteers and watch performances while you work. Being involved in the fringe reminded me of being at the Arts Factory a bit; it's a condensed, brief, emotionally intense experience of meeting people, forming bonds, some of which you know wont last past the fest, but you can pretend nonetheless.... And then some will, and you will be pleasantly surprised. I saw a few shows, including Degrassi! The Musical, which was a fun reminder of all the things I loved about that show, and Blastback Babyzap - a great sketchcomedy show from some truly brilliant actors. Ok, I may know these guys personally. But hear my honest, unbiased review: it rocked.

My transience has continued - combine couch surfing with not working and unusual amounts of going out drinking & dancing, and I feel like I'm still on the road! On the road, yet in a very familiar place. Familiar, and yet unfamiliar, since I've been experiencing the city in a truly different way than ever before in my life. It's been bizarre to say the least. But as a result of this 'continual travel', homesickness is starting to set in. (wondered when this would happen!) I'm starting to miss having a sense of connection with a place - an anchor. Being unanchored is a liberating feeling that goes hand in hand with an opportunity for some great personal discovery. It's great, until you start to feel like you're just... drifting. I guess it's time to refocus, to brush the dust off my shoes and bag and hit the road again. What luck, as I'm just about to exactly that.